Recovering from an Affair

THE HARDEST ISSUE IN THERAPY!

While people QUIT therapy most to avoid learning to set boundaries, it’s an easy issue to teach.

BOUNDARIES ARE EASY. YOU JUST HAVE TO LEARN.

What is hard?

CHEATING!

Why is it hard?

Not because of BETRAYAL,
Not because of LIES,

It’s NOT because of the things that people always talk about when cheating happens . . .

It’s because of what people DON’T TALK ABOUT!
(usually it’s the part that pisses them off the most, too)

Kids pay a big price when parents don’t deal with their shit well –
it’s hard enough to go through,
it’s even harder without guidance, and kids suffer more . . .

Why do some people immediately want to leave when their partner cheats?
Why do some people want to save the relationship when their partner cheats?

Why do we have so much judgement about it?

In order to SAVE THE RELATIONSHIP, or successfully move on, without emotional baggage
NOT ONLY DO YOU HAVE TO DIG DEEP –
you have to answer questions you don’t want to answer.

WHEN WE ARE HURT, THE LAST THING WE WANT TO DO IS BE MORE VULNERABLE!

And anything less is just plain chickenshit!

Recovering from an affair is incredibly hard.

And it is even harder if you don’t know how to do it or what the real issues are!

If you and your partner are struggling, or you are struggling alone,

Let’s make the time to talk.

Send me a private message or call 615-653-9198 and schedule our first talk.

Be REAL. Be RAW. Make Your Life AWESOME.

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